All shit smells bad.
So don’t find yourself judging or chastising another simply because you disagree with their preferred method of living. With that being said, I should also mention that personal boundaries need to be respected both within and without. I.e. all forms of life have the right to enjoy the life that was given to them without feeling utterly rejected or dismissed for displaying individualized behaviors that are nonviolent and nonthreatening. Now if narcissists and psychopaths followed that doctrine, the world would look completely different.
Why? Because most people aren’t assholes. N’s and P’s on the other hand rarely display empathy or compassion towards themselves or those around them because P’s actually lack the ability to empathize (place themselves in another’s shoes) while N’s choose not to relate when an audience isn’t present. Couple this with the fact that P’s don’t feel guilt or remorse and you’ll understand how volatile they can be. Although N’s are efficient when it comes to burying their toxicity in their unconscious, and this is why they can turn a blind eye to their shenanigans.
Once again every living thing deserves to enjoy the life that it was given. So why would you allow toxicity or abuse in your life? Love yourself and you’ll be able to extend that love to everything else in the world around you. Now what do I mean by that? I’m alluding to the fact that everyone has gifts that can be cultivated in order to support personal efforts with transcending personal hardships. This in turn can help the world at large because there is only one. Love yourself and give all toxicity the boot so you can extend your love to those around you. One must give in order to receive, though one should never compromise their own personal value and well being in order to satiate the needs of others. Many blessings
Ladies and gents, prove them wrong…
Hey reader! My name is Aaron Carlisle and I’ve been recovering from 23 years of narcissistic abuse and trauma, although that’s why I’m bringing these uplifting words to you this day. I’m here to show you that you can rise above your suffering by putting your foot down. You have the right to enjoy your life, so check out the methods and steps I’ve taken to ascend that dark chasm and into the light of freedom in my new book entitled Practical Healing: A Guide to Restore Your Life. Thanks for stopping by!
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